Monogam "Ish" Commentary

Welcome, one of two things has happened to bring you to this guide! You have either been polybombed at some point in an existing relationship or you have been told by someone, that you potentially want to begin a relationship with, that they are polyamorous. What is polyamorous? What does it mean? All polyamorous means is that someone is 'able to love more than one' person concurrently. It is done from an ethical perspective, everyone is aware and everyone gives their consent. It is consensual non-monogamy. This book is about mono/poly relationships. First and foremost they are a designer relationships or a construct where the polyamorous person can practice their preferred relationship archetype with everyone's full knowledge and still maintain a healthy relationship with their monoamorous partner. It is not ethical once consent has been given to withdraw it. Others, however, can change their mind over this practice if it is agreed upon. First Things First

Its been a hot minute since I last blogged about anything. I've taken a lot of time off, to take care of myself in this long journey of opening up our relationship. Things certainly don't go the way we want them to and that's okay but for someone who is OCD, among other things, its crippling.   I feel like I'm  ready to blog again !  That's probably due to having a good therapist, and better communication with Polybird! How is that going you might ask? well, it like this- Polybird  basically has two mono-amorous relationships at this time. He is as they say the hinge of a V. So far so good and baby steps for me. We are endeavoring to write a primer for Mono+Poly Relationships from three different perspectives     Polybird     New to Poly Meta Mono     Old Sho' Me Mono We are in the process of building material for the book, most of which comes from personal experience.  I still don't feel like poly folx can accept or even attempt to under