Not My Circus, The Difficult Decision to Enter into a Poly/Mono Relationship

Welcome, one of two things has happened to bring you to this guide! You have either been polybombed at some point in an existing relationship or you have been told by someone, that you potentially want to begin a relationship with, that they are polyamorous.

What is polyamorous? What does it mean? All polyamorous means is that someone is 'able to love more than one' person concurrently. It is done from an ethical perspective, everyone is aware and everyone gives their consent. It is consensual non-monogamy.

This book is about mono/poly relationships. First and foremost they are a designer relationships or a construct where the polyamorous person can practice their preferred relationship archetype with everyone's full knowledge and still maintain a healthy relationship with their monoamorous partner.

It is not ethical once consent has been given to withdraw it. Others, however, can change their mind over this practice if it is agreed upon.

First Things First

You have been bombed, shell shock is setting in! You can't think, you can't breathe you’re sick to your stomach, your shutting down. It is okay to say 'No More Not Now'! No decisions will be made at this point regardless of what the other person wants. Think of the oxygen mask on planes metaphor. Put your own oxygen mask on first; before assisting others, even your children if you’re not able to react you can't help others around you

Hi Everyone,  this is the first entry for the book I am working on. I just thought I would get and early feel for the audience.  let me know what you think!